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Are you a good trans ally?

Are you a good trans ally?

Controversy is swirling regarding Kate Pierson’s new song, “Mister Sister,” and there is perhaps much that can be said about that. But to do so feels as if one might be wading into a whole lot of ugly. So, I was pleased to see a post in my news feed the other day about being a good trans ally. In the controversy, it becomes clear there is much that the trans community doesn’t need or doesn’t[Read More…]

December 14, 2014 Comments are Disabled Activism, general, Transgender Discrimination & Issues
Is coming out easier in 2014?

Is coming out easier in 2014?

The linked article and video are worth your time so I’m hoping you take some time to read and watch. I saw this on Facebook, and it prompted me to post about something that has been on my mind for a while. Do you think it is any easier for youth to come out as gay or lesbian today than it was in the past? The general thought is that it is easier because there[Read More…]

December 9, 2014 Comments are Disabled Activism, general
HIV and PrEP

HIV and PrEP

One of the biggest developments since they first determined that HIV was the retrovirus that causes AIDS, was the development of a prophylaxis that uses two drugs currently used to treat HIV. However, in the case of PrEP, the drug is taken once a day, and everyday to prevent the HIV retrovirus from getting established within the body. I have tremendous concerns about PrEP, however, I also understand the advantages it offers. It is blasphemous[Read More…]

December 2, 2014 Comments are Disabled general
HIV and accountability.

HIV and accountability.

In my first post about HIV/AIDS the other day, I mentioned an HIV poz guy who was misquoting me on Facebook. The difference between what I actually said ( and meant) and what he claims I said is small but very significant. He is accusing me of blaming HIV poz guys, and in reality, I am calling for the whole of the gay community to be held accountable for rising HIV rates. The whole of[Read More…]

November 29, 2014 Comments are Disabled general
Who deserves HIV/AIDS?

Who deserves HIV/AIDS?

There was an interesting post that I’d read yesterday, which linked Harvey Milk and the struggle against HIV as two connected precursors in the movement towards Marriage Equality. This is an idea that deserves consideration, and I hope you read the post. I’ve often wondered, if there would be a strong gay male identity or community if there had been no AIDS epidemic. I suppose there would have been something. However, a real sense of[Read More…]

November 29, 2014 Comments are Disabled Activism, general
A Gay Man Sees L’Hotel

A Gay Man Sees L’Hotel

Currently running at the Pittsburgh Public Theater, is a world premier comedy by Ed Dixon and directed by Ted Pappas. The price of admission is cheap when you stop and consider the opportunity to be face to face with a whacky variety of great people  ranging from Victor Hugo to Jim Morrison. My husband and I left the theater debating if the show is really a comedy, but if you are looking for laughs, a[Read More…]

November 28, 2014 Comments are Disabled general, Review
Queer Films: a list and an exercise in sharing who we are.

Queer Films: a list and an exercise in sharing who we are.

But in the midst of this ‘life as political advocacy,’ there is the real stuff that is just life, and most central to that is anything connected with how we come to understand ourselves and who we are as human beings. This list of films is one small part of that as these individuals share films that were important to them.

November 13, 2014 Comments are Disabled Art, general
Democrats Challenge PA Elected Officials: Please Vote for Them!

Democrats Challenge PA Elected Officials: Please Vote for Them!

Philadelphia Gay News has a really great post with interviews on a number of PA democrats challenging republicans. They reached out to the GOP candidates, but none were willing to be interviewed. In my pinion, the current GOP strategy is to keep a low profile around LGBTQ issues in the hopes that no one notices them. but underneath it all, the GOP remains highly opposed to any progress by LGBTQ persons. Check out the post[Read More…]

October 31, 2014 Comments are Disabled Activism, Election
Election 2014: The US Senate and LGBTQ Rights

Election 2014: The US Senate and LGBTQ Rights

Marriage in and of itself, may not be the stumbling block to full equality. Rather, nondiscrimination protections will be the place where gay, lesbian, bi, trans, and queer persons remain treated as second class citizens.

October 28, 2014 Comments are Disabled Election, general
Get Connected: Western PA LGBTQ Twitter Accounts

Get Connected: Western PA LGBTQ Twitter Accounts

Twitter has become a valuable tool for the sharing of news and information. For many, it has replaced reading the daily paper. For others, it is a Social Network where no company’s profit-driven algorithm is determining what you see or don’t see.

October 27, 2014 Comments are Disabled Activism, general